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The
Girlfriend
Training
Program
The Reference Guide -
Master Class Sessions
VOLUME 2
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Ageless Attraction by Adam Gilad
Carlos Xuma:
Hey guys, this is Carlos Xuma, and welcome to the next in
the series of Master Class sessions for the Girlfriend Training Program.
Iʼve got a very special guest for you. A man youʼre probably familiar with at
least in some ways, especially if youʼve been with me for any period of
time. His name is Adam Gilad, and heʼs got an incredible program not only
for online dating but heʼs really stretched the limits of this into how we can
genuinely and authentically connect with women. And thatʼs I think what
resonates with guys that read my stuff, that get my programs is just how
well his programs complement and integrate with the stuff that I teach.
How are you doing, Adam?
Adam Gilad:
I am doing very well, thank you, even though I just burned
my stomach with a chocolate chip.
Carlos Xuma:
Oh, I hate it when it happens on hot chocolate chip.
Adam Gilad:
A hot chocolate chip. Iʼm thinking of it so much and I have it
resting on a cube of ice with a bowl though. Other than that itʼs fantastic.
Carlos Xuma:
I thought youʼre going to say that the chocolate chip was
resting on a hot woman, but anyway…
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Adam Gilad:
Thatʼs funny, man, but weʼll get back to that.
Carlos Xuma:
Exactly. What weʼre going to talk about today is how to
create deep connections so that a woman will never even think of cheating
or leaving you. Itʼs sounds kind of extreme. It almost kind of like a very
long-winded promise, but there is a lot of ways that guys can set up I think
the environment for the “R-word” relationship or having a girlfriend where
he doesnʼt have to worry about a lot of the things that, well, a lot of guys do
with things like losing attraction, like losing that spark of hot fun sex, the
interest of his girlfriend, the whole cool stuff he has at the start to just kind
of fizzles out and guys donʼt want that.
So Adam, let me ask you, what do you feel that women are looking for in a
man that really triggers her to continue to feel attraction over the long
term? Because thatʼs a big concern for my guys, is how do I keep the
attraction going?
Adam Gilad:
Right, if you want a long term so, first of all, Iʼm glad to be
here as always. Let me attack this a few ways.
Carlos Xuma:
Okay.
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Adam Gilad:
There are so many ways with coming at this question. One
is that the science of attraction is not the same thing as the science of
devotion over time, so Iʼve been sort of deeply reading and writing recently
on the science of attraction, the hormonal science. And the hormonal
activity in the brain pathways that are activated by initial attraction or lust or
commonly known as the honeymoon period wears off at a certain time.
Carlos Xuma:
Yeah.
Adam Gilad:
Usually, itʼs up to about two years, believe it or not. Iʼm
sorry to say. So the advice of neuropsychologists is to wait two years until
your serotonin levels settle back in. So what happens in the beginning is
that weʼre motivated to bond, to recreate, to procreate.
Carlos Xuma:
Right.
Adam Gilad:
Well, to screw. Thatʼs biologically what we are. Thatʼs what
happens. That whatʼs lust is. So if we look at it that way we come together
driven by our hormones to help our genes to reproduce themselves. So, in
some ways weʼre kind of robotic victims of our evolution.
Carlos Xuma:
Yeah, definitely.
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Adam Gilad:
So, that actually happens at the beginning. So when you
look over time something very different is happening. And I actually have a
lot to say because Iʼve been through a lot of relationships and a lot of
cycles of life. Iʼm in my forties and Iʼve been through it. So there are a
couple of things I want to say. One, there are no guarantees. There are
absolutely no guarantees that you can keep your woman forever, so I think
if the starting point is, how do I prevent this from happening, itʼs kind of a
fear response. And Iʼm sure youʼve addressed this in your program, which
you donʼt want to do is enter any kind of relationship in a fear response.
And itʼs funny, kind of, if you have that kind of sense of humor.
Carlos Xuma:
Yeah.
Adam Gilad:
But with that initial lust period, there are two things
happening. One is that your serotonin level drops and it drops much
further for women, which means that they get much more anxious and
fearful. If theyʼre going to make themselves vulnerable and bond with
somebody, their fear level goes up which is why women tend to become
more obsessive, more afraid, more jealous. I mean, these are, again,
deep evolutionary responses, and by the way, not to be blamed, itʼs a great
thing if you can rise above the moment and try to have the context of
whatʼs going on with people in this context, in the scientific context, it helps
you to be much more forgiving and also it gives you the ability to lead as a
man emotionally and spiritually because you have the information and
youʼre not getting caught up in this crazy jealous moments.
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