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Reframing  
 
Welcome back. Before we begin, have you done the prioritization process? If you
haven’t, go back and do that now. Because if you haven’t, it will be physically
impossible for you to continue.
So, I am taking for granted then that you
have
done it. Good. How did it feel
afterwards? Did you sparkle with excitement? You should. But if not, we need to do
some reframing.
This is how it works:
Are you feeling any kind of negative emotions from reading your target statement
now? These include:
- Anxiety
- Tiredness
- Headaches
- Any other type body pain
- Restlessness
- Confusion
- Anger
Etc.
If you felt any of the above, that means that you’re experiencing a conflict between
your unconscious and your conscious mind. Basically, your unconscious does not
fully like the task you have given it. But don’t worry, we’re going to take care of that
now. First of all, read your target statement again, and check to see if there is any
negative emotions popping up. If (when) they do, mark the exact words or phrases
that causes the negative emotions. Again, here’s the target statement that
I
wrote:
On or before January 5th, 2014, I will have done whatever is necessary or
appropriate so that I will have achieved the following:
I am laying in bed in my new apartment in West Hollywood with two stunning girls
that I just picked up from a nearby club. They are both at least 9’s on a scale of 1-10,
with 10 being the most good-looking, sexy woman I’ve ever seen in my life. I am
completely and utterly relentless. I am also extremely happy and enthusiastic as I can
now comfortably and easily get a new woman to sleep with in 9 out of 10 cases
whenever I feel like it.
Please make this happen for me in ways that are for the highest good of myself and
the people that I love.
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After reading this a hundred times, I felt empowered. However, I also notice that I
feel a slight bit of anxiety when reading the phrase ”They are both at least 9’s on a
scale of 1-10, with 10 being the most good-looking, sexy woman I’ve ever seen in my
life”.
And more specifically, the anxiety gets caused by this phrase: ”They are both at least
9’s”. My guess is that, from my experience, getting two 9 out of 10’s in bed together
(as long as they’re not ”tonight’s girlfriends” = pornstar hookers), is practically
impossible. First of all, even spotting two 9’s in a nightclub i hard. And if you’re
lucky enough to do so, getting them together and sleeping with them at the same time
is, well, I wouldn’t say impossible. But, I have yet to see this happen. Simply, I just
don’t believe it happening to me in the near future. I’ve had quite a bit of threesomes
in the past, but usually they have consisted of one really smoking girl, accompanied
by her less-than smoking hot friend. Many times, her friend would still be attractive.
But, she was usually not better than a 7, or at least an 8 at a
maximum.
And
remember, a 7 in my eyes is still a pretty attractive woman.
I guess this has to do with that really beautiful women often hang out with slighty less
attractive girls. Why do they do that? To take advantage of the ”principle of
perspective”. You see, a beautiful woman will more often than not befriend slightly,
or sometimes largely less attractive girls to make herself stand out even more. And if
you see two
really
smoking hot bitches together (a 9 in my eyes is the Jessica Alba-
type), best believe they have a pretty strong rivalry going on, and sleeping with both
of them together is going to be a pretty much impossible (at least from cold approach
pick up at a nightclub). However, it could be done by having a ”9” girlfriend and have
her help you get the other girl for you into a threesome. But that’s another story. So
therefore, I am pretty certain that this belief that I have (however true it is, it’s still a
belief)
is what’s causing me the anxiety. My unconscious mind simply won’t believe
that I can make the target happen.
So, what do I do?
I re-state what I want into something that is more acceptable to my unconscious mind.
So, I re-write it into this:
”I
am laying in bed in my new apartment in West Hollywood with two beautiful girls
that I just picked up from a nearby club. One of them is at least an 8, with 10 being
the most good-looking, sexy woman I’ve ever seen in my life. The other one is at least
attractive enough for me to get hard.”
Now, this sounds a lot better and more realistic. Unconsciously, I can now fully
believe this happening. Actually, it’s not going to be that hard. However, being
extremely happy, enthusiastic and relentless all together might get a little harder, and
therefore, the difficulty of the statement is good enough. It is something to strive for.
But what if you feel negative emotions on words or phrases that you can’t change?
Meaning, they are essential words to your happiness? An example of that is if you
wrote ”I am masculine”, and you would get anxiety from that. If that happens, go
back and re-do the definition-process that I talked about in the last part. This means,
write down a metastory around the word, and again, imagine yourself experiencing
that metastory. If it still causes you anxiety, you’re going to have to live with it.
That’s your inner demon talking, and I’m going to show you how to conquer them at
the end of this module.
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