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Masculinity  vs.  Femininity  
 
Now we need to go into a very important topic and talk about the main differences
about men and women. If we strip ourselves of all social conditioning and beliefs,
what we are left with are two polarities of energy. One is masculinity, and the other is
femininity. Scientists are still debating whether or not this is purely biological, or if
it’s even purely psychological. But from what I believe (after studying the subject for
years), I would say that it’s MOSTLY biological.
To prove my theory, we can take a guy named David Reimer as an example. If you’ve
never heard of David before, his story proves that there
are
many differences between
the sexes, at a core level, regardless of upbringing or social conditioning.
David Reimer was a Canadian boy who lost his cock during circumcision. His parents
then came into contact with a psychologist named Dr. John Money. Money was a
prominent proponent of the 'theory of Gender Neutrality’, which basically said that
the sex would be determined in the first years of a baby’s life, depending on the
upbringing it would get.
So with a damaged cock, the doctors would remove it completely and instead create
an artificial pussy. David was then raised as a girl, and was given the new name of
’Brenda’.
Did it work? Did David grow up to be a healthy, feminine woman?
No. As far as David could recall, he felt that something was wrong all his life. He
didn’t feel like a girl. When playing with the Barbie-dolls that his parents gave him,
he continuously looked in awe at his twin brother (who still had his penis) as he
played with his cars.
He was later told, by his father, about the lie he had lived all his life. Later on, he
committed suicide.
The moral of the story is this: There are big differences between men and women, not
only in how they look and how their bodies are formed, but also in how they think,
feel and act.
A man has a masculine energy, and a woman has a feminine.
The differences between them are like night and day, or like the sun and the moon.
What they are really, are one positive loaded magnet, and one negative loaded. When
they come towards each other, they are drawn together. The masculine and feminine
energies are what causes sexual tension. With two similar magnets (think two positive
loaded ones), there will be no attraction.
So what are the differences really, except that they are opposites?
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If you were to sum it up in a short sentence, it would be that the masculine wants to
dominate and lead, where as the feminine wants to submit and be lead.
You can see the evidence of this if you look at men and women’s sexual fantasies. Us
men will often dream about raping, harassing or dominate women (doesn’t mean we
want to rape women in real life), where as women fantasize about getting raped, used
and abused.
Of course, there’s a lot more to all this. And that’s what we’re going to go into right
now.
Masculinity,  what  defines  it?  
If you are a masculine man (which you most probably are, at least in your core), you
will have a few characteristics naturally that a non-masculine human being (a woman)
doesn’t have. These include:
•
You’re driven by freedom
Freedom from constraints, obligations, and even life itself. This is why you like to
watch action movies, see violence, watch sports or read philosophy. All of these are
male subjects and the reason we enjoy them so much is because they all represent a
quest for freedom. You follow your favorite sports team because you want to see
them win. And while this has some ego-boosting effect to it, it also affects and moves
us on an even deeper level. When your team scores, it represents freedom. You’ve
have outmaneuvered your opponent and won. Thus, you have become free.
The same principle applies to reading philosophy or religious texts. When you come
to a new realization about life or death, you’ve in essence been set free. This is why
we don’t see any prominent female philosophers (I know, there are one or two. But
probably because they are more masculine in their essence), it just doesn’t interest
them.
I also said that the masculine searches for freedom from life itself. And while this
might sound crazy, it is actually true. Thinking about death and facing it in its eyes, is
a masculine trait.
So the next time you’re watching a boxing match and you have a girl tell you ”How
can you watch this, are you sick?”. Just tell her to shut up, and don’t neglect it.
There’s nothing sick about liking violence, it’s just a masculine trait that we all
possess.
•
You’re driven by purpose
A masculine man is always driven by a purpose. This purpose can take many forms.
The most common one is:
’Make money, have a family, and take care of it’. This is why men are such family
people. They take care of their families, and they do it with great pride.
A bit later in this course, I’m going to tell you why this purpose is NOT the best one
to choose, and why that is. Just know for now, that if you ever want to be happy in
your life (since you’re a man), you must have a worthwhile purpose. Otherwise,
you’ll see yourself becoming more and more de-polarized, and feelings of depression,
worthlessness, confusion etc. will not be far away.
How to find your purpose or ’higher calling’, is what we’ll discuss a bit later. For
now, just know that you need it.
So...
Femininity,  what  defines  it?  
Here’s our opposite polarity. A polarity we can know all about, yet never truly
understand (and the same goes in the opposite direction.).
This is what a feminine woman is, in her essence:
•
She’s driven by constraint and fulfillment
This means that she’s the opposite of wanting freedom. She wants to be filled with
love, and have a fixed set of rules that she is to oblige. Instead of sports, she likes to
read romance novels. And when she’s down and depressed, she fills herself with
chocolate or ice cream.
A feminine woman has no interest in philosophy or in ’saving the world’. She has no
interest whatsoever in exploring things or fighting a war (however, there are other
kinds of wars that she’s fighting. More on that later).
•
She’s ”all over the place”
The feminine polarity has no purpose or ’higher calling’. It moves without direction.
(I’m not saying there are no women who has direction in life, most do (and in a way I
will talk about later), but it’s not a completely natural thing for them). When a woman
says something, that doesn’t mean she means what she said. She bases her opinions
on her emotions, instead of logic. This is why you can’t trust women. They have a lot
less pride and honor than their counterparts (males), and lying to them just doesn’t
seem like a big deal.
Feminine is water, masculine is rock.
This is something that you must know. The girl will always mirror you and act the
opposite way of how you’re acting. If you’re acting like a bitch, she’ll become your
boss. And if you’re acting like a man, she will act like a woman. In every relationship,
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there must always be someone who is more coveted than the other. One of you, is
always going to be the leader, and ’wear the pants’.
And whether you’ll be the one wearing the pants or not, is up to you. It all depends on
how you respond to the woman’s little scams and tests she puts on you (they all do it,
and will continue to do so as long as she’s with you).
In the next chapter, that’s what we will discuss.
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