Forbidden Pattern - The Gemini.rtf

THE GEMINI / DARK SUN

Once in rapport.

Possible theme - 'Different places in the mind'

"You know, we've been taking for a while now and I feel that you're
somebody who understands herself and somebody I can get an honest
answer from" - Set up and Challenge

"Do you think that most men understand what women really want/need?"

Likely answer - "No"

"I agree, you see I've come to an understanding about women that a
lot of my friends/a lot of men will never get, It's an understanding
I've come to be really opening my mind...."

"...my understanding is, I actually think that inside every woman
there are infact 2 women"

"On one hand there is the culturally programmed woman, the one with
all of the social rules and roles (give a couple of examples here -
make it sound really opressive and miserable - lol)."

"but then on the other hand there's the natural woman...that's the
place where you keep you most exciting memories, where you ponder
fantasies, daydreams, amazing possibilities...the kind of things you
do if no-one were watching and the things you wouldn't even want
your best friends to know that you dream about and long for..."

"...and oftentimes what happens is, because of the roles that
society forces you to play, or maybe a relationship that you're
already in that resticts you, a person has to lock those parts of
them away and keep them safe...and yet they are still there...deep
inside...just waiting to emerge"

***notice response here and anchor - if you wish*****

"So...2 questions that I like to ask myself are...

...what is it about the way certain people affect us that causes us
to think of this person <sp> in that special place...to hear this
voice...to see this face...to feel this presence in that special
place...in such a way that no matter how much we try to deny that
desire to act...it just takes on a life of it's
own...complelling...vivid....REAL!....

...where that voice inside says YES, I want to step into this
special place, with this special person <sp> and explore anything
that we can make real together"

"and the other question.... (as if that wasn't enough - lol)

...what would it be like for a person, to just right now, feel all
of those hidden parts and desires wake
up....ready....willing...alive...right now, realizing that this is
the main chance <sp>, the moment, a chance to move in a nude
erection, and the thing about nude erections is that it's not
enough to just ponder it, you've got to reach out and grab it and
act on it right now..........................